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Nabi Mukaram Alaihi Salatovalslam ka irshad aliiiii hai :
Teen baatein halakat mein mubtala kar
deti hain.
1.
. Aisi khwahish
insaan jis ka ghulam ban kar reh jaye.
2.
. Aisi hiras jis
ko peshwa maan kar aadmi is ki pairwi karne lagey.
3. . Khud pasandi. Aur yeh
bemari sab se ziyada khatarnaak hai.
Ehatasab aik aisa amal hai jo tamam fasid madon se insaan ko pak kar deta
hai. Qoum mein tawanai aur zindagi ki rooh phoonk deta hai. Acha dost woh hai
jo doston ke ehatasab par khush ho aur apni islaah ki koshish kere lekin sath
hi yeh amal ikhtiyar karna bhi zaroori hai ke agar doston ke daman par dhabbay
nazar ayen to un ka izhaar is terhan nah kya jaye ke dost ke dil par mil aa
jaye. Daagh
dhabbon ko dhoney ki hakeemana tadbeerye behtareen dosti hai. Jahan aap doosron
ki islaah ki koshish karte hain, wahan apne doston ko yeh mauqa bhi dijiye ke
woh aap ke andar uthte hue taffun aur kasafat ko aap ke oopar numaya karen. Aur
jab woh yeh talkh fareeza ada karen to nihayat aliiiii zarfi, khush dili aur
ahsaan mandi se un ki tanqeed ka kher muqaddam kijiyej. Aur un ke ikhlaas o
karam ka shukriya ada kijiyej. Rasool barhaq s.a.w
ne is misali dosti ko aaina se tashbeeh di hai.
‘‘ Tum mein se har aik apne
bhai ka aaina hai. Pas agar woh apne bhai mein koi kharabi dekhe to
usay daur kar day.’‘ ( Hadees )
Rohani qanoon ke tehat har aadmi aik
aaina hai. Aaina ki shaan yeh hai ke jab aadmi aaina ke samnay khara hota hai
to aaina tamam daagh dhabbay apne andar jazb kar ke nazar ke samnay le aata hai
aur jab aadmi aaina ke samnay se hatt jata hai to aaina apne andar jazb kiye
hue yeh dhabbay yaksar nazar andaaz kar deta hai. Jis terhan aaina farakh hosla
hai aap bhi isi terhan apne dost ke ayob is waqt wazeh karen jab woh khud ko
tanqeed ke liye aap ke samnay paish kar day aur farakh dili se tanqeed o
ehatasab ka mauqa day. Naseehat karne mein hamesha narmi aur khush ikhlaqi ka
muzahira kijiyej. Agar aap yeh mehsoos kar len ke is ka zehen tanqeed bardasht
karne ke liye tayyar nahi hai to apni baat ko kisi aur mauqa ke liye utha
rakhen. Is ki ghair mojoodgi mein aap ki zabaan par koi aisa lafz nah aaye jis
se is ke aib ki taraf ishara hota ho. Is liye ke yeh gheebat hai aur gheebat se
nafrat peda hoti hai.
Dost ki tamam zindagi mein jo ayob aap
ke samnay ayen sirf un hi ki nishandahi kijiyej. Posheeda aibon ke tajassus aur
tooh mein nah lagiye. Posheeda aibon ko kuredna bad tareen, tabah kin aur
ikhlaq soaz aib hai.
Nabi kareem s.a.w aik baar minbar par tashreef
farma ho kar unhon ne hazreen ko buland aawaz mein tanbeeh farmai :
‘‘ Musalmanoon ke
ayob ke peechay nah parro. Jo shakhs apne musalman bhaiyon ke posheeda ayob ke
dar pay hota hai to phir Khuda is ke chupay hue ayob ko tasht azbam kar deta
hai aur jis ke aib afsha karne par Khuda mutwajjah ho jaye to is ko ruswa kar
ke hi chhorta hai agarchay woh apne ghar ke andar ghis kar hi baith jaye.
KHWAJA SHAMS-UD-DIN AZEEMI
UN SCINCEDANO KE NAAM
JO 15VEEN SADDI HIJIRI MEIN
MOJOODA SCINCE KA
AKHRI UROOJ DUNIYA
KI TABAHI DHEKH KAR
EK WAHID ZAAT
KHALIQ KAINAAT
ALLAH KI TAJALI KA
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