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Maheman ke anay par salam dua ke baad
sab se pehlay is ki kheriyat maloom karen. Quran pak mein irshad hai :
‘‘ Kya aap ko
ibrahim ke muaziz maheman ki hekiyaat bhi pohanchi hai ke jab woh un ke paas
aaye to atay hi salam kya. Ibrahim ne jawab mein salam kya.’‘
Hazrat foran un ke khanay peenay ke
intizam mein lag gaye aur jo mota taaza bitchrha noon ke aapas tha is ka gosht
bhuvan kar mehmanon ki khidmat mein paish kar diya.
‘‘ To jaldi se ghar
mein ja kar aik mota taaza bitchrha laaye aur mehmanon ke samnay paish kya.’‘
( Quran )
Achay log mehmanon ke khanay peenay
par musarrat mehsoos karte hain. Maheman ko zahmat nahi, rehmat aur kher o
barket ka zareya samajte hain. Ghar mein maheman anay se izzat o touqeer mein
izafah hota hai.
Maizban par yeh farz hai ke maheman ki
izzat o aabaroo ka lehaaz rakha jaye. Aap ke maheman ki izzat par koi hamla
kere to is ko apni ghairat o hamiyat ke khilaaf challenge smjhiye.
Jab Hazrat loot alaihi salam ke
mehmanon par bastii ke log badniyati ke sath hamla aawar hue to woh mudafat ke
liye uth kharray hue aur kaha.
‘‘
Yeh log mere maheman hain. Un ke sath bud sulooki kar ke mujhe ruswa nah karo. Un ki ruswai meri ruswai hai.’‘
‘‘ Loot a.s ne kaha, bhaio! Yeh mere
maheman hain, mujhe ruswa nah karo. Khuda se daro aur
meri be izzati se baz raho.’‘ ( Quran )
Imam shafi jab imam maalik ke yahan ja kar bator maheman thehray to imam
maalik ne nihayat izzat o ehtram se inhen aik kamrah mein sulaa diya. Sehar ke
waqt imam shafi ne suna ke kisi ne darwaaza khitkhitaya aur barri hi shafqat se
aawaz di.
‘‘ Aap par Khuda ki rehmat ho,
namaz ka waqt ho gaya hai.’‘
imam shafi foran utthay. Dekha to
imam maalik haath mein pani ka bhara hua lotaiye kharray hain. Imam shafi ko
kuch sharam mehsoos hui. Imam maalik ne nihayat mohabbat ke sath kaha.’‘
bhai! Tum koi khayaal nah karo. Maheman ki khidmat har maizban ke liye saadat
hai.’‘
Nabi mukaram s.a.w khud bnfs nafees
mehmanon ki khatir daari farmatay thay. Jab Aap s.a.w maheman ko apne dustar
khawan par khana khelati to baar baar farmatay’‘ aur khaiye aur khaiye‘
jab maheman khoob aasooda ho jata aur inkaar karta is waqt aap israar nahi
farmatay thay.
Maheman ke samnay achay se acha khana paish
kije. Dastarkhawan par khord o nosh ka samaan aur bartan waghera mehmanon ki
tadaad se ziyada rkhiye. Ho sakta hai ke khanay ke douran koi aur sahib aa
jayen aur phir un ke liye bhaag daud karna parre. Agar bartan aur samaan pehlay
se mojood ho ga to anay wala bhi izzat aur musarrat kere ga maheman ke liye
khud takleef utha kar eesaar karna ikhlaq husna ki tareef mein aata hai. Aik martaba Nabi kareem s.a.w ki khidmat mein
1 shakhs aaya aur bola.’‘ huzoor! Mein bhook se be taab hon.’‘Aap
s.a.w ne umhaat al-momineen mein se kisi aik ko ittila karai. Jawab aaya ke
yahan to pani ke siwa kuch nahi hai. Phir Aap s.a.w ne dosray ghar aadmi ko
bheja. Wahan se bhi yahi jawab aaya to Aap s.a.w apne sahabiyo ki taraf
mutwajjah hue aur farmaya.’‘ aaj ki raat kon usay qubool karta hai ?’‘
Aik sahabi ansari ne is maheman ki
maizbani ka sharf haasil karne ki istada ki aur woh ansari maheman ko apne ghar
le gaye. Un ki biwi ne kaha.’‘ hamaray paas to sirf bachon ke laiq khana
hai.’‘
Sahabi Rasool ne kaha.’‘ bachon
ko kisi terhan behla kar sulaa do aur jab maheman ke samnay khana rakho to kisi
bahanay chairag bujha dena aur khanay par maheman ke sath baith jana taa ke is
ko yeh mehsoos ho ke hum bhi is ke sath khanay mein shareek hain. Subah jab yeh
ansari Huzoor alaihi salatovalslam ki khidmat mein haazir hue to Aap s.a.w ne
dekhte hi farmaya.’‘ tum dono ne raat apne maheman ke sath jo husn
sulooq kya hai woh Khuda ko bohat pasand aaya hai.’‘
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