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Adolescent Inferiority Complex and Developmental Immaturity

 

 Question:

I am eighteen years of age and the only son of my parents. I suffer from a profound inferiority complex, lacking self-confidence and emotional steadfastness. Constitutionally, I appear younger than my chronological age; youths younger than me look more mature. Childishness marks my temperament and personality, leaving my countenance devoid of presence or authority. My companions harbor elevated aspirations, yet I involuntarily perceive myself as inferior. I yearn to purge all fear from my heart save the awe of Allah, so that I may become brave and resilient. Immense family responsibilities await me, as I am the solitary brother to several sisters.

Answer:

Following the completion of each obligatory prayer, recite the Quranic verse:

A-lā inna awliyā’a Allāhi lā khawfun ‘alayhim wa-lā hum yaḥzanūn

أَلَا إِنَّ أَوْلِيَاءَ اللَّهِ لَا خَوْفٌ عَلَيْهِمْ وَلَا هُمْ يَحْزَنُونَ

(Behold! Verily upon the friends of Allah there is no fear, nor do they grieve)

Close your eyes for several minutes and focus your inner gaze upon your heart. Persist in this discipline; existential dread and feelings of inferiority will systematically dissolve.

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