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Question:
We
are twelve siblings. My sisters possess extraordinarily quarrelsome
dispositions, fighting incessantly to the extreme point of physically striking
our mother. Our mother behaves in the same manner, harboring relentless
suspicion against our father, while he retaliates by hurling vile verbal abuse
at her and at all of us siblings. We face no lack of material wealth, yet our
character is so degraded that if an item arrives from the neighborhood, a wild
scramble ensues. Respect between elders and youngsters does not exist; everyone
acts upon their selfish whims.
Previously,
we resided among uneducated, impoverished communities. Today, we live in a
fashionable and affluent neighborhood; however, our ingrained habits have
undergone no transformation. The degradation is such that we deliberately
humiliate one another even before visiting guests. I earnestly yearn for our
parents to live in tranquil harmony, for mutual affection to cultivate among
the siblings, and for the toxic venom of malice and jealousy to be purged from
our hearts.
Answer:
Awaken
very early in the morning before sunrise. Fill a tin-plated bronze bowl with
clean water and stand facing toward the Qibla. Recite once:
Bismillāh ir-Raḥmān ir-Raḥīm, Yā Wadūdu
بِسْمِ اللّٰهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِیْمِ یَا وَدُوْدُ
and
blow upon the water. Administer this water to all members of the household
through whichever method is feasible (you may also pour it into the drinking
water containers kept in the refrigerator). At night before retiring to sleep,
burn pure frankincense (Lobān) to fumigate the house. Discontinue this
spiritual practice once domestic conditions have normalized.