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Question:
I have grown profoundly
despondent with life. There was a time when I offered my daily prayers with
regular devotion; now, I pray only intermittently. I do not even bring myself
to supplicate, wondering how my prayers could ever be granted. For girls of ordinary
countenance, this world is nothing short of an ordeal. Once, I used to pray for
blessings; now, I ask only for death. I lack the courage to commit suicide, so
I must go on living so long as God wills. There are many tribulations, yet I
mention only one problem that robs me of sleep through the night and makes me
shrink away from facing anyone. Up until about two years ago, my hair was
perfectly healthy; then, it began falling out. The hair along my front hairline
thinned so drastically that circular bald patches began forming on my scalp. A
person can conceal internal ailments from others, never letting them show; but
how do I hide this? As I pen this letter, tears fill my eyes. Today, for the
first time, I lay bare my sorrow before you. For young women, small physical
imperfections turn into a torment. In the eyes of this world, I am already full
of shortcomings.
Answer:
Recite Surah Al-Layl three
times over egg oil (Roghan-e-Baiza-e-Murgh), blow upon it, and gently
massage it onto the alopecia patches with your fingertip. Continue this
practice until the affliction is completely eradicated. Do not wash your hair
with soap; wash your scalp using a gentle quality shampoo, Indian gooseberry (Amla),
or gram flour (Besan).